For the most part, our interactions with other pilgrims and locals has been quite pleasant if not joyful. However, one rest stop this was not the case. I and another pilgrim sat down at a table outside a cafe/bar while waiting for someone buying something inside. We had not ordered or purchased anything from this location and were eating something we had brought with us. I had forgotten that it is not polite (not to mention how many cultural boundaries crossed) and before I realized it, the owner approached us asking for our order. Communicating the best I could in Spanish, I told him I was not ordering and apologized for sitting at his table. He immediately became angry and after a little dialogue, I am pretty sure he said something insulting to us ( it is sometimes nice to not know all the vocabulary of language). Despite the lack of exactly knowing what he said, the emotional and spiritual meaning was understood.
We left without further interaction, but this gave me a chance to think and pray through what happened. Working on something negative is not new, but not the norm by having it thrown at me from someone while on the Camino. Many things ran through my brain: quick comebacks, sarcasm, insults, how he should be a better business owner, customer service facts, should be gracious to pilgrim's whom he makes a living off of, etc...
Then, after my loud flesh quieted down (that took a while) the still small voice had a chance to weigh in: what might be going on in this man's life that made him react this way, his marriage, family, something else...
What would be life giving? Heal? Show light? Reveal God?
That took longer to ponder and I hope better prepared me for the next non-smiling lesson that comes my way.
Buen Camino!
Thomas